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Avoidant Lover
Pop
Avoidant Lover was released on October 23, 2025 by Heymusic Lab as a part of the album Avoidant Lover - Single
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Release DateOctober 23, 2025
LabelHeymusic Lab
LanguageEnglish
Melodicness
Acousticness
Valence
Danceability
Energy
BPM89

Credits

PERFORMING ARTISTS
Lumen
Lumen
12-String Electric Guitar
COMPOSITION & LYRICS
Lumen
Lumen
Songwriter

Lyrics

You always disappear
Messages left on seen
You say you’re too tired
But I know—you just don’t wanna deal
I get a little closer
You back off three steps
I pretend to understand
But my heart breaks every time
I thought I was too clingy
I thought I was too immature
But now I see
It’s not my fault at all
Hey, where are you now?
You ghosted me again
Left me hanging on a blue tick
I thought it’s just a difference in mind
But turns out—
You’re an avoidant lover
Too scared to love
Too scared to speak of love
The closer I get
The faster you run
Your heart’s a bunker
I knock and knock, but you play deaf
“Let’s not fight,”
That’s your getaway spell
I thought I was too sensitive
I thought I asked too much
But now I get it
You’re just afraid to be trapped
Hey, where are you now?
You ghosted me again
Left me hanging on a blue tick
I thought it’s just a difference in mind
But turns out—
You’re an avoidant lover
Too scared to love
Too scared to speak of love
The closer I get
The faster you run
“I don’t wanna talk about it”
“Let me cool off for a bit”
But love is not
A hide-and-seek game
I’ve learned to let go
Learned to set myself free
Cause loving someone
Who’s too scared to love
Feels lonelier
Than heartbreak itself
Written by: Lin Lumen
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