Listen to Lose You To Love Me by Selena Gomez

Lose You To Love Me

Selena Gomez

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Credits

PERFORMING ARTISTS

Selena Gomez

Lead Vocals

Mattman & Robin

Mattman & Robin

Programming

FINNEAS

Synthesizer

Mattias Johansson

Mattias Johansson

Violin

David Bukovinszky

David Bukovinszky

Cello

Mattias Bylund

Synth Strings

Julia Michaels

Background Vocals

Justin Tranter

Background Vocals

COMPOSITION & LYRICS

Selena Gomez

Songwriter

Julia Michaels

Songwriter

Justin Tranter

Songwriter

Mattias Larsson

Mattias Larsson

Songwriter

Robin Fredriksson

Robin Fredriksson

Songwriter

Mattias Bylund

String Arranger

PRODUCTION & ENGINEERING

Mattman & Robin

Mattman & Robin

Producer

FINNEAS

Additional Producer

Bart Schoudel

Vocal Producer

Ryan Dulude

Assistant Recording Engineer

Gavin Finn

Assistant Recording Engineer

Mattias Bylund

Strings Engineer

Serban Ghenea

Mixing Engineer

John Hanes

Engineer

Chris Gehringer

Chris Gehringer

Mastering Engineer

Will Quinnell

Mastering Engineer

Lyrics

[Verse 1]

You promised the world and I fell for it

I put you first and you adored it

Set fires to my forest and you let it burn

Sang off-key in my chorus 'cause it wasn't yours

[Verse 2]

I saw the signs and I ignored it

Rose-colored glasses all distorted

Set fire to my purpose and I let it burn

You got off on the hurtin' when it wasn't yours

Yeah

[PreChorus]

We'd always go into it blindly

I needed to lose you to find me

This dance, it was killing me softly

I needed to hate you to love me, yeah

[Chorus]

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

I needed to lose you to love me, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

I needed to lose you to love me

[Verse 3]

I gave my all and they all know it

Then you tore me down and now it's showing

In two months you replaced us like it was easy

Made me think I deserved it

In the thick of healing

Yeah, yeah

[PreChorus]

We'd always go into it blindly

I needed to lose you to find me

This dance, it was killing me softly

I needed to hate you to love me, yeah

[Chorus]

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

I needed to lose you to love me, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

I needed to lose you to love me

[Verse 4]

You promised the world and I fell for it

I put you first and you adored it

Set fires to my forest and you let it burn

Sang off-key in my chorus

[Chorus]

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

I needed to hate you to love me, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

I needed to lose you to love me

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

[Outro]

And now the chapter is closed and done

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

And now it's goodbye

It's goodbye for us

Written by: Julia Michaels, Justin Tranter, Mattias Larsson, Robin Fredriksson, Selena Gomez

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