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Credits
PERFORMING ARTISTS
H.E.R.
Vocals
COMPOSITION & LYRICS
Carl McCormick
Songwriter
Nima Jahanbin
Songwriter
Jeffrey Rashad Williams
Songwriter
Paimon Jahanbin
Songwriter
Gabriella Wilson
Songwriter
Hue Strother
Songwriter
PRODUCTION & ENGINEERING
Cardiak
Producer
Wallis Lane
Producer
Jeffrey Rashad Williams
Producer
Omar Loya
Recording Engineer
Miki Tsutsumi
Mixing Engineer
Ayana Depas
Assistant Engineer
Dave Kutch
Mastering Engineer
Lyrics
[Verse 1]
I should've listened to my intuition
I put myself in this position, it's all my fault
Look in the mirror, think what am I missing?
See and think different, oh, am I lost?
[PreChorus]
Feelin' a way, nothin's the same
I wish you would change, oh, I'm lost
Numbin' the pain don't make it okay
Nothin' to say but
[Chorus]
You brought all the issues (Issues)
And mine was staying with you
Don't hold it against me ('Gainst me)
Against me, hold it against me, against me, yeah
And I don't trust you lately
And if that makes me crazy
Can't hold it against me ('Gainst me)
Against me, hold it against me, yeah
[Verse 2]
Feel like I'm driftin', know he notice the distance
And love ain't been blockin' my vision, but that ain't my fault
That he was the difference
You let him get in that position, I'm too comfortable now
[PreChorus]
And feelin' a way, nothin's the same
I think every day that we're lost
And love ain't enough, but it's holding me up
Love ain't enough, girl
[Chorus]
You brought all the issues
And mine was staying with you
Don't hold it against me ('Gainst me)
Against me, hold it against me, against me
And I don't trust you lately
Said I don't trust you
And if that makes me crazy
If that makes me
Can't hold it against me ('Gainst me)
Against me, hold it against me, yeah
Against me, against me, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
[Refrain]
Oh, yeah, oh, yeah
Oh, oh, yeah
Against me, against me, against me
[Outro]
To my women, with the utmost respect
Intellect, we often forget and neglect
Intuition can see through elusive intent
Listen to it
Just listen, just listen
[Outro]
I found myself searchin' for a way to prevent
The detriment, and given the impression that if you express to him
What a woman needs, his comprehension is definite
But there's a difference between understanding and honoring your word
And I'm articulate, he's a good listener
But I'm hesitant 'cause he's gonna fuck up anyways
Baby, just listen, listen, listen
Oh
[Outro]
In the corners of a man's mind, there's a place where vulnerability hides
And intimacy is not the act of physical intertwine, but it's the isolation of two minds
That's why he keeps his heart and his head separate
There's only one he can connect with
The multiple names on the checklist, only calls when he's desperate
I guess it's too much pressure to be respectful and honest
It's too stressful to be keepin' promises, and I'm impatient
I'm too high maintenance, way too many expectations
When we're just dating, but I'm special, right?
[Outro]
Deny, deny, deny, all you do is lie, word is bond, right?
But not with me because I don't know what it's like
I'll never understand the needs of a man or how to nurture
And what she doesn't know can't hurt her
But, nah, it's deep, and you know it
I told you exactly what I wanted, and that love is exhausting
But I'm not tired of you yet
No, no, no
[Outro]
To my women, with the utmost respect
Intellect, we often forget and neglect
Intuition can see through elusive intent
Listen to it
Written by: Carl McCormick, H.E.R., Hue "SoundzFire" Strother, Hue Wayne Strother, Jeffrey Rashad Williams, Nima Jahanbin, Paimon Jahanbin